I was at a restaurant with a man I met online.

He insisted on bringing me my coffee. The waitress appeared out of nowhere and spilled it all over the table.

My date turned red with anger. As we were leaving, the waitress leaned in and whispered, “I did it on purpose.

He’s not who you think he is.”

I froze. My coat halfway over my arm, purse swinging at my side.

“What?” I blinked, confused.

She slipped a folded napkin into my hand and walked off without another word.

I glanced at my date—Renzo. That’s what he said his name was. Clean-shaven, expensive watch, shiny leather shoes. He looked… legit. But now I couldn’t stop noticing how his jaw clenched like he was holding something in.

In the car, I pretended everything was normal. “That was… something, huh?” I said, forcing a laugh.

He didn’t respond. Just drove in silence.

When I got home, I unfolded the napkin.

“Google: Renzo DiLuca Sarasota 2019. Be careful.”

I did. And my stomach dropped.

Turns out, Renzo DiLuca wasn’t even his real name. He went by several aliases. In 2019, a man matching his description had scammed three women out of their savings down in Sarasota. Fake investment schemes. Promised love, commitment, and a future together. Then vanished.

I sat there staring at my screen, my mind spinning.

How close had I come to being his next victim?

The next day, I didn’t text him. But he texted me.

“Had a great time last night. Want to do dinner again?”

I didn’t reply. Instead, I went back to the restaurant. The waitress was there. She looked surprised to see me.

“I just… I needed to say thank you,” I said.

She nodded slowly. “You looked like me. That’s how I knew. He picked me up three years ago. Same exact playbook. The coffee thing? I did that back then, too. He freaked out just like that. It was how I knew for sure it was him.”

I sat down across from her in a booth. “Why didn’t you go to the police?”

She sighed. “Tried. But he never used his real name. The accounts were fake. By the time I realized, he’d cleaned out my bank account and vanished.”

Her name was Maribel. She’d lost $14,000. Took two years to crawl out of debt. She told me everything. How he’d promised her a joint business. Asked her to “co-invest.” Made her feel like they were building something real.

And I believed her.

I couldn’t stop thinking about how easily I could’ve been next.

But instead of blocking him, I decided to play along.

I told him I’d love dinner. I chose the place. Public, familiar. I brought a friend who sat at the bar with a view of our table.

“Renzo” showed up with roses. Acted like nothing was wrong.

“Sorry again about the coffee disaster,” he said, grinning. “Hope you weren’t too shaken.”

He stood up, muttering something about the bathroom, but never came back.

My friend saw him duck out the side exit. We waited. He was gone.

I reported everything. The name, the fake phone number, his face. The detective didn’t promise much—guys like him knew how to disappear—but he said they were building a stronger case thanks to more women coming forward.

Weeks passed. I blocked the number. Moved on.

And then one evening, I got a message on Instagram from a woman named Trini.

She’d found me because I mentioned “Renzo” in a comment under a local women’s safety post.

“He just messaged me last week,” she wrote. “Said his name was Luca. But your story… it’s him. I know it is.”

I met her for coffee. And guess what? He used the same restaurant, the same line about bringing her the coffee.

This time, we both knew better.

We started warning others. Quietly, carefully.

We created a little network. A Facebook group. Women from different cities started sharing their stories.

It’s wild how someone like that can slip through cracks for years. But what’s even wilder is how strong women become when we start talking to each other.

Maribel? She joined too.

We meet once a month now. Not out of fear, but because we’re not going to stay quiet anymore.

Here’s what I learned:

It’s not about being paranoid—it’s about being prepared.

Trust your gut. Listen to the quiet clues.

And when women look out for each other, we’re damn near unstoppable.

If you made it this far, thank you. Please share this post—it might help someone else spot the signs before it’s too late.❤️👇